Since I don’t want my response to this to get buried on what would now be page 4 of this thread (what a nice surprise this morning …), I’ve moved the other responses to
this thread. Not an ideal solution, and I do sincerely apologize for that, but a number of things I’m about to say are things I’ve said before, so I need to make sure I get heard on this.
First, Spitfire did not ask me to do this. They have
never asked me to delete negative posts about them, other than one time last year when Paul complained (rightly IMO) that someone wrote “Sh**fire” in their thread. I did edit that post, but then as I read the rest of the thread (I’m not an orchestral guy, so I rarely read Spitfire threads), I noticed a lot of other negative posts. I emailed them that in theory, the Commercial Announcements section is a “safe zone” and if they like, we could enforce that. They said no. They didn’t want any appearance of censorship, and asked that I not do any moderating in their threads.
They’ve stayed true to that. Other than the “Sh**fire” incident, I have not gotten a single request from Spitfire to delete, edit, or do anything at all in their threads. None. In fact, other than their ad department sending me ads to posts, I had had no conversations at all with Spitfire since then. Daniel, on the other hand …
We get reported posts from Daniel from time to time. He’s a guy who needs to have the last word, so sometimes he’ll tangle with someone else who also needs to have the last word, so the conversations often turn ugly and Daniel sometimes believes the other guy went too far and then tells us about it. (Ah, the joys of running a forum.)
On one occasion in April, he complained about JohnG, who is one of the most measured and calm guys I know. (Sorry, but if you’re in a conversation with John Graham that has devolved to where you feel you need to report a post, then you’re doing something wrong.) So I sent Daniel a PM (while I was on vacation, mind you) suggesting that maybe having the last word isn’t as important as it seems, and the best solution might be to just let the topic go. Everybody’s points were already made on page one, so page 30 isn’t doing anyone any good.
I have to write messages like that way too often and I don’t enjoy this role as Dorm RA, by the way. I do have a job (Realitone) that has suffered significantly since taking ownership of this forum. These emails (or even this post) don’t write themselves and I’m spending 10 to 20 hours per week dealing with this stuff. Most days I will get at least one
“Mike, you gotta do something about xxx!!!” PM or email. It’s draining. Anyway …
On Thursday, Daniel sent me a PM, this time saying he’s going to quit the forum. Garry (his nemesis at the moment) is giving him a hard time. I spent about an hour writing a response. It had to be written carefully, because I very much want Daniel to stay on the forum, although the drama and constant demand to play Solomon is wearing me out. Not to get melodramatic about all this, but I’ve already approached a couple people about selling the forum, because I can’t keep doing this. It’s too stressful and as I said, it’s seriously costing Realitone.
Anyway, it started becoming clear to me as I read
this thread that Daniel has a thing against Spitfire. Maybe it’s just me, but some of his accusations seem pretty wacky, and I can’t help but wonder if there’s some backstory that is motivating him.
Now, up to this point, I have had no conversations whatsoever with Spitfire about any of this. For that matter, I had nothing to do with moving the Charity thread to the Drama zone. (That was a request from Garry, and indirectly from Daniel. I didn’t even know at the time what the “drama” was about. Like I said, I don’t read Spitfire threads.)
After that Thursday private message from Daniel, though, I did have a conversation with Paul and Christian. It turns out that there is indeed some backstory to the HZ Strings affair and it’s more significant than most of us probably thought. Interesting. I can’t help but wonder at this point whether there’s some ulterior motivation to all the anti-Spitfire posts Daniel writes. I doubt it’s intentional, but I think there’s some underlying bitterness at play.
Anyway, Daniel’s forum departure lasted all of 24 hours. He was right back to arguing with Garry that Spitfire’s Labs promotion amounts to “predatory pricing”, as well as other ethics charges against Spitfire. More reported posts, more drama for me to deal with. My suggestions (on several occasions) to Daniel to maybe let topics go are seemingly ignored.
This was going to go on forever, so I honestly felt there was only one solution - Ask Daniel not to post anymore about Spitfire. This wasn’t unilateral, by the way. I also asked several other members to not post anything about Daniel. This plan, flawed as it may be, is the only way I could think of to get this fighting to end.
This solution is possibly a little draconian, but I believe most people here would prefer fewer of these tedious debates on the forum. Disturbingly, though, many of the people leaping to Daniel’s side and condemning me are the same people who in previous years left the forum for these
exact same reasons! The hypocrisy blows my mind. Negativity towards East West? They left in a huff. Negativity towards Spitfire? How dare Mike Greene do anything about it!
Look, you guys can hate Spitfire all you want. You can even hate me all you want. (There’s a 7 page thread on another forum dedicated to what an asshole I am, so I’m starting to get used to it. Wait … no I’m not. Anyone wanna buy a forum?
) But don’t you think the forum would be better if Mike and Mike from CineSamples posted here again? Or Andrew from Audiobro? Or Nick and Doug from East West? Or Alex and Jonathan from Embertone?
They all used to be regulars here, but they were all chased away by various people who had to make their points so relentlessly that the forum became too unpleasant for them. For people familiar with the history, you’ll recall that it wasn’t product critiques that chased them away. It was certain relentless members who kept hammering some annoying point over and over and over again.
Is it really that outrageous to try to stop that? If the majority of the forum believes a member is getting out of hand with their attacks on a company, is it that unreasonable to ask that member to stop? Free speech is one thing, but when it’s chasing good people away, that’s another.
By no means am I suggesting negative comments not be allowed. VI-Control is first and foremost a forum for members, not developers, and that isn’t going to change. If a product sucks, we need to know it.
But if one member is involved in about a hundred total pages (I think that’s literally true!) critical of one particular company, then can’t we agree that’s going too far? Paul stopped posting here months ago. Christian is still here, but after our email exchange this last couple days, I’m now learning he’s on the edge, too. I tried to handle this in a more traditional way, but I failed. I totally agree this new solution is not ideal, but for everyone’s sanity, especially my own, I have to do what I have to do.
For the record, yesterday at 1:00 (long before this thread was started), I clarified to Daniel that if he does a YouTube video review of a Spitfire product (as opposed to Spitfire drama), he CAN post a thread here linking to it, even if the review is negative. He can also speak positively about Spitfire if he likes. He’s not “banned.” The ONLY thing I’m trying to accomplish here is an end to the drama. I find it annoying that there is no mention of that in Daniel’s Twitter feed, nor here in this thread.